Keeping it "real"

I read something the other day about postpartum anxiety that sounded a lot like me and it really scared me. I’ve never suffered from anxiety before, so I’m not sure what to think. Couple that with the fact that I am not exactly postpartum (I have a toddler not a newborn). I am always worried about dying and keeping my kids safe. I worry about what would happen if I die, and even make notes and videos for my kids “just in case.” I worry about home intruders, kidnappings, things I know intellectually are rare. But that doesn’t stop me from always knowing what door I could exit with my kids if a shooter or intruder came in. I realize this isn’t normal, but wonder if it’s anxiety or postpartum anxiety? I haven’t gotten help because I kept thinking it would go away as my baby got older and my hormones leveled out.

Hi all I am about 6 weeks pregnant. Yesterday I worked out after some time. I did some light weights and squats. Few hours later I had brown spotting just when I wiped. Today is a little thicker and even a slight clump. Is this normal? I’m worried. I don’t have an ultrasound for two weeks when I will be eight weeks.

My daughter came home and told me that her friend said something yucky that bothered her. The comment was worrisome: either an indication of a need for attention or an indication of abuse. Should I call the mom (I know her but not well) or the teacher? I don’t want to insult the mom and am not sure how to position it… And if there are serious problems, then it might be best for an outsider like a teacher to be aware to watch for other warning signs? Thoughts?

I’m currently 4months pregnant on the 3rd of Dec I will be 5months. I’m glad my boyfriend(father of my child) is the one who makes me happy about being pregnant and who makes me excited to have my child. Thank you God for him. Just wish he was there for me emotionally or reassuring me of not being a statistic.

I just started a part time work from home job. It’s great because the hours are totally flexible, but I’m not super organized with my time yet and I’m wondering how other moms juggle being home with their kids and working at home. Do you set aside specific times to work? Do you do things here and there throughout the day? I know I can do some at night once the kids are in bed, but that’s pretty much the only time my husband and I have together and I hate to spend the entire night ignoring him. Any advice is appreciated!

I know how hard it can be to be in the thick of things with babies and toddlers. At one point I had three under the age of four and it was often overwhelming. Now that my kids are a bit older (7, 5, and 3) I wrote this to encourage moms who might need a boost. http://ohhonestly.net/2015/09/14/to-the-weary-mom-of-littles/

I was able to stay home with my oldest for one year but, then the next 5 years I was mostly gone working. Now that I have number two I realize how important it is that I am there for them. I regret missing so much of my first sons life but, my not working could put a serious financial strain on our family. I am optimistic though because I’ve got a home-based business that is going very well. I am curious about other mothers opinions on the matter? I know it can be a hot debate, and it is definitely not my intention to downplay anyone’s decision. Staying home with the kids also means being in charge of the dishes and laundry. Sometimes I feel like my talents, knowledge, and skills are going unused. But I recently read a nice article about our children and how important a mother is to them! That made me feel better. And I do feel like I am living a life of purpose. I think that it could be one of the problems with our society these days that our kids don’t have two parents and sometimes they don’t get to see the one that they have. Everyone is running so fast, trying to just get by or get ahead. Some may say “it is what it is”, or “we are doing the best we can.” I know that is the truth in many cases, but I believe we need to start talking about other options. There is a way to have both financial security and time with your children! I have found it and I can help you too

Yes, yes, 50 times yes! With a 2.5 year old and a 1-month-old, I am totally in this boat. Can anyone else relate?! http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/6539438

I’ve seen many of my friends share this article on social media the past few days. I’ll admit, it brings up several points that I completely agree with. As moms, we should support one another and try not to be so judgmental. We all have our reasons for the way we decide to raise our children. Which “mom trends” do you agree or disagree with in this article? http://www.huffingtonpost.com/mommy-nearest-/5-mom-shaming-trends-that-need-to-stop-now_b_6035514.html

I thought this was a beautiful piece on that feeling of being tethered to our children. It brought new clarity to those (sometimes overwhelming) moments of motherhood that make us feel confined or stuck. Hope someone else enjoys it as much as I did! http://www.coffeeandcrumbs.net/blog/2014/10/20/tethered

Love this one! http://www.huffingtonpost.com/lauren-cormier/supermom-does-exist-youll-never-guess-who-she-is_b_5972224.html?ncid=fcbklnkushpmg00000037

It hit me like a tidal wave yesterday, the mom guilt. Have I spent enough time with our second child. She’s almost 3…http://www.mommyinsports.com/2014/10/double-the-kids-quadruple-guilt.html

Ive been with my husband for 5 years. Married only 2 months now. I feel like this was a huge mistake. Every morning i wake up to how many times did you get up. What time did you fall asleep. Etc. He tells me to lidt my shirt so he can inspect my butt and front area to see if he can see my underware lines. If we dont have sex at least 2 times a day im magically messing with someone else. I need some advice. He gets upset if the house or kids are to loud. But then gets mad if i dont sit and spend time with him. I dont work because im not allowed to. Because he says he’ll work but then he doesnt get a job. I dony know what to do.

So I wasn’t sure which group to put this in, but this story shares the difficulties that many parents deal with everyday. They are fighting for their child’s life. This shows a community coming together to show support for pediatric cancer. It brought tears to my eyes after watching it and makes you realize that we need to cherish every minute with our children. http://www.today.com/parents/leahs-story-devon-still-shares-his-daughters-fight-cancer-2D80194372