Oh Chyann! You are in the trenches! This is hard stuff, mama. The key is just take your time. Wear the baby if you have a sling or Baby Bjorn. Or pass the baby on for a few hours to a trusted friend who can help you cuddle – the baby won’t know the difference and you can be freed to love on the two year old. Check in with their doctor to make sure they are healing as expected. Say no to anyone who asks you a favor. It feels hard because it is hard. Keep everyone hydrated and don’t worry if they don’t have an appetite for solid food right now. Remember that acetaminophen helps not only with fever but with pain from ear infections or headaches. Keep yourself hydrated too!